And the Bride Wore White
Seven Truths to Live in Sexual Integrity . . . No Matter Your Past
- Women
- Christian Living
- Publisher: Moody Publishers
- Published: 2026
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Publisher's Description
With over 300,000 copies sold, readers continue to applaud And the Bride Wore White This book is one woman's freedom story. Jesus is the Author—the One who redeems, restores, and rewrites broken stories. In this updated edition of her bestselling book, And the Bride Wore White, Dannah Gresh tells the story of her young love life, revisiting her own teenage journals. She vulnerably shares her struggles and successes, her moments of pain followed by healing, and the eventual triumph of living in sexual integrity. The words in this book will help you: Cultivate a deep, satisfying love relationship with Jesus that shapes every other desire. Discover your God-given worth and walk in dignity—in how you dress, date, and define yourself. Invite trusted leaders into decisions about your relationships—and learn why that's not weakness, but wisdom. Practice having bold, real-life conversations about boundaries and safety. Find a mentor, build Christian community, and pursue spiritual growth that lasts a lifetime. Trade shame for grace and begin a lifelong journey of sexual integrity—no matter your past.
Endorsements (15)
“You are a sexual being. But contrary to what the world says, your sexuality is ultimately not about you. Nor is it—as some seem to suggest—about following a legalistic set of rules and regulations. In this book, Dannah Gresh challenges both sexual license and legalism. She presents a holy, redeemed, joy-filled view of sexuality that will challenge and inspire you to faithfully tell the story that God created you to tell.”
“I am thrilled that Dannah has created an updated edition of this book to help a whole new generation of women. This is the most hope-filled and grace-filled book I have read on this topic. No matter what your story was up to this point, this message will meet you where you are and show you that your story is His going forward. I particularly loved the emphasis on biblical discipleship and mentoring relationships; walking alongside others who are ahead of us is so vital for learning and growth as we continue our walk with God.”
“Dannah helps reframe the narrative around purity, changing from the cultural lies, shame, and disqualification to a biblical call to holiness. These chapters navigate the missteps of sexuality before or after they happen.”
“As a married woman who carries scars from the legalism and shame that came from distortions of the truth within the Christian purity culture, I ended this book in tears of gratitude. With humility and grace, Dannah not only exposes the false narratives of sex and purity in both our world and churches, but she magnifies the beautiful and freeing truth of seeking God's design for spiritual and sexual holiness and healing—not through perfection or self-will but through gospel grace.”
“The renewed release of And the Bride Wore White could not come at a more important moment. In a culture saturated with distorted messages about sex, Dannah Gresh points clearly to God's eternal truth while extending the mercy of the gospel to those who have stumbled. Her honesty, theological depth, and compassionate heart make this book a trustworthy guide for young women seeking both freedom and holiness. She presses us to find our identity and satisfaction in Christ. This is a message families, churches, and university campuses urgently need.”
“God has called His children to holiness, and this is a powerful book for any woman that seeks to honor God with her sexuality in these challenging times. Dannah is grounded in solid biblical truths and communicates with wisdom, sensitivity, and compassion. A must-read for women committed to living out their faith with godliness and grace.”
“I was a high school freshman when I read the first edition of And the Bride Wore White, and the truths Dannah highlighted radically impacted my decisions in romantic relationships and my pursuit of Jesus. Now, two decades later, I could not be more excited that Dannah has updated this book—keeping the same solid biblical content and adding in much-needed sections on homosexuality, transgenderism, pornography, and social media use. This is a book I recommend for all Christian young women seeking to honor God with their sexuality.”
“Girls are being inundated for hours and hours every day by social media with confusing and harmful messages about sexuality. No wonder saving yourself for marriage sounds unreasonable, legalistic, and terribly naive to many young women. In this timely book, Dannah shows from Scripture and her own life the timeless value of respecting your body, honoring God with your whole being, and accepting the grace of God when you need a do-over.”
“As someone who once struggled to maintain sexual purity and later wrestled with the weight of shame (even after coming to Christ), I deeply appreciate Dannah's compassionate, biblically grounded approach to this delicate topic. And the Bride Wore White offers women the grace-filled wisdom they need to navigate a world full of conflicting messages about sex and identity. Dannah's heart for Jesus and the next generation shines brightly through her life, ministry, and writing. I pray that this resource will bless many and better equip them to engage wisely and biblically in conversations surrounding sexual ethics.”
“For the young woman wondering how to navigate dating relationships or wishing she had made different choices or worrying that her past mistakes have ruined her future, this book is a must-read. Dannah tenderly and compassionately invites young women to realize how cherished they are by the Father. With honesty and openness of her own struggle to follow Jesus, she reminds every reader of her inestimable worth as a daughter of God and the dignity she holds. And an important truth: neither can be taken from her no matter what life has brought. For the young woman wanting to understand God's design for sex in a culture that tries to debase it to nothing more than physical desire, here is your guide. Dannah provides practical help with scriptural examples wrapped up in grace. This book is a gift to a generation of young women seeking true love.”
“And the Bride Wore White is a deeply relevant exploration of Bible-based sexual purity and modesty. Dannah navigates the complexities of presenting God's Word against the backdrop of both secular and church culture, unfolding truth and transparency through a heart of compassion and grace. This is a must-read for women of all ages and walks of life in this critical time.”
“What makes And the Bride Wore White so powerful is the way Dannah transmits not only God's truths regarding sexuality, but His heart. And that is exactly what makes this book a timeless gem.”
“And the Bride Wore White profoundly impacted my life as a fourteen-year-old girl navigating one of the darkest seasons of my life. Reading it showed me not only the love of Jesus but helped me find Jesus-centered community where my deep healing began. I am forever grateful for Dannah and this book. Jesus used both the original book and Dannah to redirect my life from a broken teenager on the brink of despair to a flourishing individual who loves Jesus, and who is now loving life as a wife, mother and minister of the Gospel.”
“In these confusing times, issues like sexuality, gender, and love are under constant attack. Dannah offers a heartfelt and transparent conversation, pointing us to Jesus, the gospel, and the power of God's Word and grace. This book is a timely and practical guide for those seeking truth in a world filled with lies.”
“I grew up during the peak of the purity movement, a time when many of us were taught to treasure purity but sometimes with a heavier emphasis on rules than on grace. While some elements of that movement were unhelpful, the core truth remains: God calls us to live in purity. In And the Bride Wore White, Dannah Gresh masterfully preserves everything valuable about that call—the beauty of honoring God with our bodies and relationships—while gently stripping away the parts that can feel legalistic. Through her own story and heartfelt insight, she equips readers with both biblical truth and practical wisdom for walking in sexual integrity and hope, no matter their past. This is a wonderful book that I believe can benefit all believers—whether you're revisiting these themes as a parent, a mentor, or someone pursuing Christ-centered holiness yourself. I hope you will read it!”
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