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Create a Life You Love

How to Quiet Outside Voices So You Can Finally Hear Your Own

  • Women
  • Publisher: Zondervan
  • Published: 2024

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Publisher's Description

As women, we're often told that we're entitled or unrealistic when we want to create a life we love. We start hearing this message from a very early age, and by the time we're old enough to know what we want, we've also been taught to doubt our instincts and to see selfishness in all our longings. This book is the antidote to those voices...and the way forward. Writer, speaker, and podcaster Stephanie May Wilson has helped thousands of women shrug off the pressure of what they think their lives are supposed to look like and take on the next big decision or life transition with intentionality and confidence. Create a Life You Love is a warm, passionate guide on how you can rediscover your own authority and build a life you're finally excited to live. You'll learn how to: Define yourself on your own terms by setting aside societal pressures that tell you who you're supposed to be. Feel empowered to make your next big decisions with confidence and clarity. Build security and peace in both who you are and the season you're in. Through stories, exercises, and hard-won wisdom, Create a Life You Love will help you untangle your own expectations from the expectations of others and get inspired to at last pursue a life that you're excited to wake up to each day.


Endorsements (12)

“As always, Stephanie’s words are a balm to overwhelmed women everywhere—each trying her hardest to live her life well. Throughout this beautiful book, Stephanie comes alongside you with the friendly tone of a dear friend and the wise teachings of a trusted mentor. Create a Life You Love delivers clarity, purpose, and the much-needed reminder that we are never alone.”

Emily Ley

“Life is hard work. It comes with a lot of big questions and difficult decisions that will affect the rest of our lives. We can often feel so paralyzed by the pressure of hoping to do life “the right way” that we can forget to enjoy it. In Create a Life You Love, Stephanie May Wilson shares her personal experiences and knowledge she’s learned over the years to remind us that it’s important to be good stewards of the things we are given and that it’s possible to love the lives we build along the way. This book was encouraging to me that even in hard, crazy, or unclear seasons I can live in faith and joy, creating a life I’m proud of.”

Madison Prewett Troutt

“Stephanie leads the way with wisdom and experience, and this book is her showing you the heart she’s wearing on her sleeve. Not only is she bound to become one of your favorite humans, but Stephanie is also the perfect guide to stand alongside you as you boldly build a life of beauty and intention. If you’re at a crossroads where you’re wanting something more or you’re simply tired of living for the approval of other people—brew a cup of coffee and pick up this book!”

Hannah Brencher

“Create a Life You Love is your personal guide to crafting a life filled with purpose and joy. Stephanie is your guide to help you find your path, make meaningful choices, and enjoy the journey. I love this book!”

Alli Worthington

“Stephanie has long been one of my favorite writers. She just has a way of making you feel like you’re chatting with your BFF at a long overdue girls’ night. And in this book, she serves as equal parts best friend who gets it and mentor who’s been there. She gently guides you as you learn to silence all the voices that may be overwhelming you through some of the most important decisions of your one precious life. This is a must-read!”

Jordan Lee Dooley

“Poignant, relatable, and oh-so-important, this book is a must-read for anyone on a journey to better themselves in a practical, applicable, and reasonable way. Stephanie is tuned in to real-life challenges, and her roadmap also accounts for the inevitable pitfalls and roadblocks, proving her understanding of the human experience and how each of our paths are unique. Add this book to your nightstand and you won’t be disappointed.”

Jasmine Roth

“Create a Life You Love is more than just a book; it’s a life-changing journey, answering the big question, “What do I want to do with my life?” Easy to read and like having a wise friend by your side, it’s perfect for those navigating the uncertainties of their twenties and thirties. Whether about moving, career choices, marriage, or motherhood, the author provides a ton of advice, clarity, and wisdom. Let this book be your guide to making those big decisions with confidence and joy!”

Sazan Hendrix

“Stephanie leads with honesty, transparency, and authenticity. Her ability to understand the impact and navigate the weight of life’s big decisions is unmatched. This book is yet another beacon of guidance for those who are tired of trying to figure out life all on their own. Full of encouragement and like talking to a good friend, Stephanie will guide you with wisdom and grace in Create a Life You Love.”

Robin Long

“Reading this book feels like talking to a big sister—not one who pretends to have it all figured out, but one who’s willing to do life alongside you while reminding you that you’re not alone during seasons of wondering and uncertainty. Stephanie makes creating a life you love feel not just attainable, but enjoyable, freeing, and empowering. When you pick this book up, you’ll learn how to lay some heavy burdens down.”

Danielle Coke Balfour

“she is. She makes women feel seen, meets them where they are, and then delivers practical tools to help them find freedom from societal pressures and comparison to create a life they love. I love this book, and I hope every single woman (pun intended) picks it up.”

Kait Tomlin

“Create a Life You Love is a welcome invitation to build life on your own terms. Wilson walks you through thoughtful insights to take agency in your own life.”

Eve Rodsky

“If you want to create a life you’ll love—and create a life with love in it—then join Stephanie May Wilson as she takes on “The Woman Question” and more. You’ll be glad you did.”

Meg Jay

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