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I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening)

A Guide to Grace-Filled Political Conversations

  • Ethics, Culture & Social Issues
  • Publisher: Nelson Books (Thomas Nelson)
  • Published: 2020

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Publisher's Description

More than ever, politics seem to be driven by discord. People sitting together in pews every Sunday feel like strangers and loved ones at the dinner table feel like enemies. Toxic political dialogue, hate-filled rants on social media, and agenda-driven news stories have become the new norm. But it doesn't have to be this way. In I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening), two working moms from opposite ends of the political spectrum teach us that politics don't have to divide us. Instead, we can bring the same care and respect to policy discussions that we bring to the rest of our lives. Sarah Stewart Holland and Beth Silvers, co-hosts of Pantsuit Politics, recently named an Apple Podcasts Show of the Year, give you all of the tools you need to: Respect the dignity of every person Recognize that issues are nuanced and can't be reduced to political talking points Listen in order to understand Lead with grace and patience Join Sarah from the left and Beth from the right as they teach you that people from opposing political perspectives truly can have calm, grace-­filled conversations with one another. Praise for I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening): "Sarah and Beth are an absolute gift to our culture right now. Not only do they offer balanced perspectives from each political ideology, but they teach us how to dialogue well, without sacri­ficing our humanity." --Jen Hatmaker, New York Times bestselling author and speaker "Sarah from the left and Beth from the right serve as our guides through conflict and complexity, delivering us into connection. I wish every person living in the United States would read this compelling book, from the youngest voter to those holding the highest office." --Emily P. Freeman, Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Next Right Thing


Endorsements (8)

“PRAISE FOR I THINK YOU’RE WRONG (BUT I’M LISTENING) “Sarah and Beth are an absolute gift to our culture right now. If you are weary of the political fury, division, and gridlock, this book will lay pavement for a better way. Not only do they offer balanced perspectives from each political ideology, but they teach us how to dialogue well, without sacrificing our humanity. I wish every citizen of the United States would read this book.”

Jen Hatmaker

“Every human has at least two superpowers. The first is the power to listen, and the second is the ability to extend grace. The problem is, many of us never find ways to access these, especially when it comes to our political positions. Now, with the release of this timely book, Sarah from the left and Beth from the right serve as our guides through conflict and complexity, delivering us into connection. I wish every person living in the United States would read this compelling book, from the youngest voter to those holding the highest office.”

Emily P. Freeman

“The frequency with which I quote either Beth or Sarah tells me how much they’ve influenced how I think about politics and how to engage in politics with civility and heart. This guide for how to engage in potentially-charged conversations as an informed citizen—no matter how busy you are, no matter your stage in life—is the grace-filled handbook our culture needs right now. I’m so grateful for their wisdom and friendship.”

Tsh Oxenreider

“For those overwhelmed and exhausted by the current, toxic state of political discourse in America, you’re right—there is a better way. Drawing from years of on-the-ground experience, Sarah and Beth unpack what’s gone wrong and outline how we can begin to fix it, both in our hearts and in our communities. Their practical guide is full of exactly what long-time fans have come to expect, and new readers will quickly come to appreciate: no shouting, no insults, plenty of nuance.”

Anne Bogel

“Civic life suffers when everyone is shouting. In this gentle but persistent book, Sarah and Beth nudge readers to listen from a place of curiosity, rather than judgement, to approach differences with a focus on grace, rather than ‘gotcha’ moments. Highly recommended to anyone hungry for nuance.”

Laura Vanderkam

“As a long-time listener of Sarah and Beth’s podcast, one of the things I loved about reading I Think You’re Wrong (But I’m Listening) is that I know, without a doubt, that they are truly trying to live and put into practice the principles they’ve outlined throughout the pages of the book. I love the emphasis on a nuanced approach to political conversations—coming not from party-centered divisiveness but from a place of wholehearted connection. At its core, this is a book about how to be a better human.”

Ali Edwards

“Sarah and Beth are an absolute gift to our culture right now. Not only do they offer balanced perspectives from each political ideology, but they teach us how to dialogue well, without sacri­ficing our humanity.”

Jen Hatmaker

“Sarah from the left and Beth from the right serve as our guides through conflict and complexity, delivering us into connection. I wish every person living in the United States would read this compelling book, from the youngest voter to those holding the highest office.”

Emily P. Freeman

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