Love Does Not Conquer All
- Marriage, Family & Relationships
- Publisher: Baker Books (Baker Publishing Group)
- Published: 2025
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Publisher's Description
"A roadmap for healing and connection that every parent and child could benefit from."--Tori Hope Petersen, bestselling author and speaker· from a former street kid turned adoptive dad and foster dad· how to parent with grace and consistency· special information about dealing with challenging behaviors, broken trust, and traumaWhether a child has been in a loving and supportive home from day one or has been bounced from one house to another in the foster care system, parenting them is messy. A former street kid, Peter Mutabazi knows what it feels like to grow up in a world where love, caring, and kindness are nowhere to be found. But as the adoptive father of three and a foster dad to more than forty children, he also knows what a difference it makes when a child experiences the positive influence of an attentive and loving parent. In this honest and hopeful book, Peter shares surprising lessons he has learned during his unique parenting adventure, including how to· parent children for who they are rather than for who you want them to be· look beyond problem behaviors to find their root causes· love children who do not want your love· understand your own scars and turn them into understanding and healing for your childrenNo matter what your parenting journey has entailed, you will find wisdom, encouragement, and practical instruction in these hope-soaked pages.
Endorsements (9)
“It’s easy to stand on the sidelines and complain; as a society, we often spend more time talking than doing. Peter Mutabazi, however, is a man of action—a true example of service and compassion. Having survived a difficult life in Uganda, he now dedicates himself to serving God through adoption and foster care, embodying the hands and feet of Jesus. A must-read, Love Does Not Conquer All reminds us that life isn’t like Hollywood: the foster care journey can be challenging, but God is with us every step of the way.”
“Peter’s unconventional path to parenthood and the honest lessons he shares are profoundly inspiring for any parent. His relatable vulnerability shines as he navigates a world unfamiliar to many: foster care. Offering a rare and unflinching glimpse into the lives of teens in the system—often overlooked or misunderstood—he reveals the critical need for these children to be seen, loved, and parented. Peter’s story reminds us that what may seem ‘abnormal’ is the norm for kids who have endured trauma. He challenges us to pause our judgments and truly witness the extraordinary transformations made possible through consistency, compassion, and an unwavering commitment of ‘I will not leave you.”
“In Love Does Not Conquer All, Peter Mutabazi offers a powerful and transformative guide for parents, drawing from the depths of his own tumultuous childhood. Now a devoted single Black father, Mutabazi weaves his personal narrative with his extensive experience raising over forty foster and adoptive children into an invaluable resource for those navigating their own intricate challenges of foster care and adoption. With raw honesty, transparency, and heartfelt reflections, he offers profound insights that should resonate deeply with anyone invested in the well-being of children. This compelling, thought-provoking, and child-centered book serves not only as a crucial resource for adoption agencies and child welfare professionals but also as essential reading for all parents striving to create loving and trauma-informed environments.”
“As a fellow foster/adoptive parent, I deeply appreciate Peter’s insight and raw honesty. I pray this book inspires every reader to search their heart and ask how they can serve foster children and families. These children deserve our best, and Peter is proof that together we can change lives!”
“Ruvé and Neal McDonough, producer and actors “Peter Mutabazi has written an incredible expression of love and humor. His understanding of the hearts of children in the foster care system and his wisdom for fostering families is a rare gem. In this book, he offers realistic expectations, but he ends with hope for the journey for those who care for hurting and vulnerable children.”
“In Love Does Not Conquer All, Peter’s blend of personal stories and practical advice offers a roadmap for healing and connection that every parent and child could benefit from.”
“This book is a story of triumph—where Peter came from and where he has arrived as a parent is remarkable. We all have challenges as children, whether fostered, adopted, or birthed, but Peter’s journey with his children is one of pure inspiration that can reach out to anyone, no matter your race or creed!”
“This book is a story of triumph—where Peter came from and where he has arrived as a parent is remarkable. We all have challenges as children, whether fostered, adopted, or birthed, but Peter’s journey with his children is one of pure inspiration that can reach out to anyone, no matter your race or creed!”
““Love Does Not Conquer All cuts straight to the heart of what it truly means to love children through the highs and lows of foster care and adoption. This book is a powerful testament to the resilience of both children and parents as they navigate the hidden scars and unexpected challenges that love alone cannot erase. As a foster and adoptive mom, I know firsthand that love is powerful but not always enough to heal deep wounds on its own. Peter’s raw honesty and hard-earned wisdom bring hope and clarity to a journey that is as heartbreaking as it is rewarding. This book is a lifeline for parents and a guide to fostering with both heart and resilience.”
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