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Raising Passionate Jesus Followers

The Power of Intentional Parenting

  • Marriage, Family & Relationships
  • Publisher: Zondervan
  • Published: 2018

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Publisher's Description

Hope and practical help for parents whose greatest longing is to shepherd their children into a vibrant faith in God. For Christian parents, there is no greater joy than seeing their children learn to walk with the Lord. And there is no greater fear than that their children will walk away from God. After serving together in pastoral ministry and raising their now-grown children, Phil and Diane Comer know those hopes and fears well. Like all new parents, they were intimidated and unsure about how to take on the task of spiritually training their young children. But now, with all four of their children grown and establishing their own households of faith, Phil and Diane have embarked on a quest to help the next generation of parents raise passionate Jesus followers. Drawing on years of pastoral counseling, teaching, leading, and decades of watching families from the perspective of pastors and leaders in ministry, Phil and Diane instruct, guide, encourage, and offer hope and practical help to Christian parents. Raising Passionate Jesus Followers is a manual full of practical, biblically based, and time-tested guidelines that parents will be able to turn to again and again through every stage of their children's development, including... Formulating a plan Laying the foundation, ages 0-5 Doing the framing, ages 6-12 Installing the functional systems, ages 13-17 Completing the finish work, ages 18-22 And keeping the front door open for your grown children


Endorsements (14)

“Until I became a parent, I had no idea what a hard, labor-intensive, complex, rewarding, fun, exhausting, and exhilarating skill it is to unfold a child into their full potential. I always knew I had good parents, but it wasn’t until our first child was born that it dawned on me: I had some of the best. I quickly realized that if I could be half the father my dad was, I would be a raging success, but it would be no easy task! Within days of Jude’s birth, I found myself regularly calling mom or dad and asking a barrage of questions. Now, as we enter the teenage years, I have more questions than ever before. My parents don’t have all the answers, but they have more than a little wisdom to pass on to a generation that is reeling from the dissolution of the family in Western culture and the corresponding emotional, relational, and spiritual fallout. Our family has its fair share of dysfunction, as all families do, but to this day our entire family is following Jesus, and for my parents, that was always the number one goal. If you share that goal, I can’t think of a better guide for the journey than this book. Read it!”

John Mark Comer

“Of course they weren’t perfect, but they were wonderful. The lessons they teach on parenting might not seem revolutionary, but I can say this: most of the relational and personal success I’ve seen in my own life is because of my parents’ tireless efforts to teach me to love well, serve others, and seek to know God more every day. Rebekah (Comer) Opperman My husband and I want nothing more than to raise all four of our kids to love and serve Jesus with every part of their lives. Most days we feel hopelessly inadequate—kids don’t come with an instruction manual! Although my parents are quick to admit they’re far from perfect, the wisdom they have gathered from their years of seeking Jesus and allowing His ways to shape their own parenting is pure gold. We frequently call them to seek advice and insight. Now I’m thrilled to have all that wisdom and understanding available to anyone who shares our hope of raising the next generation of passionate Jesus followers. Elizabeth (Comer) Mosser My wife and I are entering our third year of marriage, and kids could potentially be in the near future. Because of this, we’ve begun to talk about how we want to raise our children. To be honest, the thought is terrifying! We want to raise kids who grow up knowing they’re loved and who know how to love well. Mostly, we hope they follow Jesus. Raising Passionate Jesus Followers teaches a way of parenting and raising children that does just that. In this book, Dad and Mom have shared not simply good ideas, but practical methods that actually work. This isn’t a guide to being the perfect parent—that’s impossible—but if you share our desire to do parenting well, then I encourage you to read this book.”

Matthew Comer

“Wise parenting requires the eyes of our hearts be enlightened by godly, experienced, reflective mentors who combine biblical insight and sage application. Phil and Diane Comer have given us this in Raising Passionate Jesus Followers. Their success with their own children, plus their pastoral guidance of thousands of others, is the foundation for this treasured resource.”

Gerry Breshears

“Phil and Diane Comer have proven themselves to be an invaluable resource for the church. It is a rare thing to find people who have sustained their integrity throughout a life of fruitful ministry and have raised children who are all followers of Jesus. Thankfully, by offering their wisdom through the Intentional Parenting materials and conferences, the Comers are providing a much-needed voice in the church!”

Chuck Bomar

“Phil and Diane's heart for raising children who passionately follow Jesus is evident in the wisdom and content they share with parents around the world. The encouragement and instruction that they provide for parents through their teaching points directly back to the Bible, providing a solid foundation for their practical parenting tools!”

Erica Nargizian

“Diane and Phil teach us through very simple principles and practical ways that nation-building starts at our dining tables, playgrounds, and in our children’s bedrooms through a very simple exercise: teaching our children to love God and to love their neighbor. We believe that their secret to such a successful legacy of parenting is being truthful and loving against all odds.”

Edi Gogu

“There is a myth that if you are spiritual you are no fun, and to raise followers of Jesus is boring and dull. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Following Jesus is the greatest adventure life can offer, and Raising Passionate Jesus Followers will help you lead your family on this grand adventure. Phil and Diane have put together an incredible book that needs to be on every parent’s shelf and utilized as an ongoing resource throughout the stages of parenting.”

Ryan Ingram

“If the deepest longing of your heart is to leave a legacy of faith to your children, then this book will guide you in your journey. You will be encouraged and challenged by Phil and Diane’s transparency and authenticity. They write from the perspective of looking back at what worked. They have lived this out! And their four adult children are their biggest cheerleaders. You need to read to find out why.”

Sarah Eggerichs

“Phil and Diane share their journey offering biblical, practical, and effective tools to raise passionate followers of Jesus. Being an intentional parent has not only made me a better parent; it’s also made me a better husband. Tarik El-Ansary, executive pastor, Reality San Francisco The Intentional Parenting Conference was one of the most notable events that has happened at our church since we began five years ago. Phil and Diane’s biblically-rooted wisdom gave hope and encouragement to parents and caregivers who are trying to raise children to become Jesus followers in a culture that rejects His truths.”

Morgan Antonell

“With their genuine humility, integrity, and love for God and for others, Phil and Diane Comer have already impacted thousands of families in countries around the world. Our prayer is that through this Intentional Parenting book, many more parents and the supporting network of family and friends will embrace the vision to raise children who love Jesus above all else. The elders of Westside: A Jesus Church The greatest gift to our children that we can give is to invest our time in learning how to raise them as Jesus followers. This book is an amazing summary of biblical and practical wisdom of how to do this. If you are a parent or soon-to-be parent, I can’t imagine not reading every page to learn from those who have gone before us like Phil and Diane.”

Dan Kimball

“Phil and Diane are passionate about equipping parents to inspire their children to walk in the way of love and helping families thrive. They openly share their failures, learnings, and successes with readers with the true aim of inspiring children to love and walk with God.”

Scott Harrison

“Our church leaders have been blown away by the practical, biblical, and encouraging content that Phil and Diane share during the Intentional Conference. It’s exactly what the families with young children in our community need. There’s something for everyone to learn as we all seek to raise the next generation of passionate Jesus followers.”

Jose Zayas

“One thing I love about the Intentional Parents ministry and conference is that the goal isn’t to create perfect, well-behaved children; actually, we just want our children to know Jesus. I walked away from their conference filled with hope and faith that this is actually possible. I am sure this book is going to be powerful in the hands of many families.”

Ruth Weller

“This book is a vital read for parents. It not only radiates years of wisdom but tangible, doable ways to steward our most precious calling of all: raising our kids.”

Dominic Done

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