The Flirtation Experiment
Putting Magic, Mystery, and Spark Into Your Everyday Marriage
- Marriage, Family & Relationships
- Publisher: W Publishing Group (Thomas Nelson)
- Published: 2021
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Publisher's Description
From popular Christian voices Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, The Flirtation Experiment inspires you to strengthen your marriage with a fun, unexpected approach that leads to the depth, richness, and closeness you desire. Romance novels, Hallmark movies... the immense demand for romantic stories reveals a deep, unsatisfied longing that can be found in many marriages, but does it have to be that way? Is it possible that the best marriage has to offer can grow, rather than fade after you say “I do”? Lisa and Phylicia say, “Absolutely yes!” So what is the secret to a happy, thriving, loving marriage, where the fire of romance and close friendship do not fade? While The Flirtation Experiment includes the frisky side of marriage, it’s far more than a good romp. By degrees, each chapter takes you to a deeper place, covering themes every beautiful marriage has in common, such as covenant, healing, and hope. After reading The Flirtation Experiment, wives will be filled with hope and encouragement for how they can make a powerful, positive change in their marriages, become empowered to pursue their husbands romantically, understand the Bible invites women to be proactive in their marriages, be motivated to consistently love in creative ways, and forge closeness and intimacy in their marriages. “Intentional flirting keeps a positive lightness in the atmosphere and improves our overall communication,” says Jacobson. “My light flirtations bring us closer in meaningful ways and lead to connection on a deeper level. It helps us discover true romance waiting for us in everyday situations.” Perfect for the wife who wants romance, passion, and the closeness that only comes from a deep heart connection but isn’t sure where to start, The Flirtation Experiment is a candid, real-life record of two Christian women from different seasons of life who discovered they could make a significant impact on their marriage relationships, one small flirtatious experiment at a time. Readers can go deeper by using The Flirtation Experiment Workbook.
Endorsements (11)
“As the world tilts, our marriages need fresh survival skills. This book might just be that survival skills manual—except it reads nothing like a manual. I couldn’t put it down! Each story is involving; every invitation feels equal parts awkward and exciting. Phylicia & Lisa have given both young and old marriages a gift in these pages. At twenty years in, I’m taking notes.”
“If you find that your marriage is a little less magical and a little more mundane, The Flirtation Experiment might be just what the Love Doctor ordered. Filled with solid biblical truths, relevant real-life stories, and doable challenges and activities, this helpful resource will help spark your creativity and rekindle the romance you once felt toward your husband. I know I will be gifting it to many friends—whether they’ve been married for decades or for just a few days. Highly recommended.”
“Could your marriage use a little more playfulness? Passion? Kindness? Hope? All of these things—and more—can be intentionally kindled, and in The Flirtation Experiment, Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer invite us into the laboratory of their lives to show us how it’s done. Whether you’ve been married for five years or fifty, you’ll find yourself challenged, inspired, and equipped to act the way you want to feel—and start enjoying the rich and satisfying relationship you’ve always wanted!”
“You might ask me, ‘So how did you like being a lab rat?’ As it turns out, it was awesome! Lisa’s experiment to find fun and frisky ways to engage with me pretty much guaranteed that. And this fun, light, and surprisingly deep book is the result. I love how Lisa and Phylicia take something so simple as encouraging wives to initiate flirting with their husbands and, from that unexpectedly profound opening, take them on a journey deep into a pursuit that leads to a holy place. Are you looking for new ways to keep your love alive and fresh? Don’t miss out . . . keep reading!”
“After reading The Flirtation Experiment, I was both impressed and inspired by the effort and creativity Phylicia and Lisa put into bringing Matt and me back to the days when we dated our spouses. Truly a moving book!”
“If you have been quietly hoping for change in your marriage, coasting along, or waiting for an easier season, The Flirtation Experiment is the kick start you need. This book is filled with practical help laced with gospel truth delivered by women who are living it out. It is the wit and wisdom we all need to infuse both fun and faithfulness back into one of the most important relationships of our lives. If you are ready to wisely tend to your marriage and have some fun doing it, this book will not disappoint.”
“No matter how many years you’ve been married, you need this book! Our marriages are either growing or slowly dying; they won’t remain status quo. We have to initiate growth. With unusual honesty, rich insights, and splashes of humor, Lisa and Phylicia give us ideas that will help us put a spark into our marriages.”
“The Flirtation Experiment is loaded with simple even-you-can-do-it ideas for creating new energy in your marriage. Each chapter gives an illustration, biblical grounding, and encouragement for wives who want to take small steps that can have a big impact. I’ve been married more than thirty years and still came away with some fantastic ideas to use in my own marriage.”
“I often ask, ‘How can you grow a better marriage if you do not know what the end goal looks like?’ The Flirtation Experiment beautifully and authentically paints a picture of how to attain the goal of a connected, lighthearted, and harmonious marriage. Phylicia and Lisa balance candid anecdotes with theoretical insight and practical applications. I will be recommending this book to everyone in a healthy marriage because no matter what, there is always room for growth.”
“Having had the chance to observe and hear about some of these experiments as they were happening, we were so excited to get our hands on this book! The Flirtation Experiment is full of eminently practical ideas expressed in sometimes raw, often funny, and always relatable stories from Phylicia’s and Lisa’s very different seasons of life as they share insecurities, victories, and, yes, theology, to inspire you to fan the flames of your marriage in approachable, achievable, countercultural ways.”
“Refreshingly honest and packed with practical tips, The Flirtation Experiment is a permission slip to rediscover romance in the humdrum of married life. Phylicia and Lisa are gracious guides, ushering readers through their own experiences while constantly highlighting biblical truth. A delightful read for anyone looking to stop hitting the snooze button on their marriage.”
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