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The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

Because Good Guys Make the Best Lovers

  • Marriage, Family & Relationships
  • Publisher: Zondervan
  • Published: 2022

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Publisher's Description

If you ever wonder, Is this all there is to sex? or I wish I knew how to help my wife enjoy this more, you'll appreciate this straightforward, helpful, and faith-based advice on how to have a better sex life. Based on groundbreaking surveys of more than twenty-five thousand people, this highly practical, research-based book shows guys how to rock their wife's world. The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex from popular marriage blogger and speaker Sheila Wray Gregoire and her husband, Dr. Keith Gregoire, will help you: Discover what your wife wants most from you in the bedroom Realize what can derail a couple's sex life and how to get it back on track Find healing from past trauma, previous relationships, and porn addiction Understand your own sex drive and how to keep it revved Learn the secrets to giving your wife the most fulfilling sex she's ever had This can-we-start-tonight? book about making sex wonderful explores how emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy all work together. It will appeal to: Newly engaged couples who want to start their marriage off right Married couples who wonder if sex will ever become what they hoped it would be Readers of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex Pastors and counselors seeking a resource for helping engaged and married couples The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex also features Couple Projects at the end of each chapter and very specific "Good Guy Dares" to help you woo your wife in and out of the bedroom as you find your way to a delightful, God-given passion.


Endorsements (9)

“Finally, a book that can guide us men into becoming what we have long pretended to be—wildly good lovers! This book is radically helpful on the journey toward becoming sexually healthy and fully embodied. Sheila and Keith have written a must-read for anyone who has previously had sex, is currently having sex, or would like to have sex in the future! Thank you for this wise guide.”

Andrew J. Bauman

“I’ve worked with thousands of husbands, and this book answers many of the questions they’ve asked about how to have great sex. If you want intimate connection and also want research-based answers, do your marriage a favor and get this book.”

Adam King

“The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex is a life (in the bedroom) changing resource to help couples close the gap between what they hope for from sex and what they actually experience. Written by a bestselling sex expert and her physician husband, this hope-infused, medically savvy book will empower men to love their wives as equal partners in all things amorous, as well as help them understand what’s really going on between the sheets of sexual passion and sexual struggle. Here you’ll find fresh perspective and compelling rationale for why so much of what we’ve been taught about sex is as unhealthy as it is unhelpful. This book may make you mad (when you realize you’ve been misled), but it will bring you joy. It may make you blush, but it will heal your shame. And best of all, it will deepen your marital intimacy at every level—emotional, spiritual, and physical.”

Michael John Cusick

“Many men receive unhelpful messages about their sexuality, and few are taught how to build a great sex life. This book changes all that! I hope the principles taught in The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex become the new standard for faith-based sex education in the home.”

Dan Purcell

“Most married couples that are disconnected and hurting sexually lack the tools and the language to process what is going on and the guidance to know what they can do about it. Not anymore.”

Neil Josephson

“This is a desperately needed book and one I wish I had twenty-five years ago! The authors skillfully connect the emotional, spiritual, theological, and physical aspects of sexuality, all in layman’s terms. For guys who want to love their wives well, this book lays the foundation for a lifetime of growth together in love, mutual joy, and intimate connection. I will be passing it out in all my marriage counseling.”

Sam Powell

“Finally, a feminist sex book for Christian men, by a man! Keith’s clear and accessible language pushes against the prevailing culture of male-centric sexual advice, creating something that is mutually edifying precisely because it is female-forward. Packed with the latest psychological, physiological, and sociological research, it’s not just a good sex book, it demonstrates a more holistic way to be a man and a husband. I highly recommend it!”

Jonathan Puddle

“Sheila Gregoire knocks it out of the park again with her new book The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex. This book offers a straightforward, no-nonsense approach to addressing the issues of male sexual frustration and dysfunction often present in today’s marriages. Simple and practical yet theologically grounded, Sheila’s message doesn’t back down from the realities of today’s marital landscape, challenging her readers to rediscover the true meaning of sex along with a path back to sexual enjoyment and greater intimacy.”

Carl Thomas

“more biblical understanding of sex and sexuality. This book will not only challenge your paradigms but also greatly improve your sex life! Find out how you can rethink sex to revitalize your sexual intimacy. I highly recommend this book for all couples who want to experience healthy sexuality in the bedroom—and beyond!”

Nick Stumbo

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