The Grown Woman's Guide to Online Dating
Lessons Learned While Swiping Right, Snapping Selfies, and Analyzing Emojis
- Marriage, Family & Relationships
- Women
- Publisher: Nelson Books (Thomas Nelson)
- Published: 2020
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Publisher's Description
Does the thought of joining a dating site invoke feelings of fear and anxiety—or, worse, insecurity or unworthiness? If so, then The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating is the audiobook for you. With practical advice about how these sites work, what to expect, and when to join and quit, along with proven tips for making the most of them, The Grown Woman’s Guide equips listeners with all they need to take the plunge. Four years after an unexpected divorce, bestselling writer and funny lady Margot Starbuck found herself venturing into the unknown waters of online dating. What she discovered surprised her—and changed her. With her signature sharp wit and a solid biblical foundation, Margot shares what she learned, including how to: Determine which sites are best and what to expect Write a first message that is most likely to get a response Avoid common pitfalls in creating your profile Live out the truth that you are God’s beloved So dive into embracing your true value and drawing closer to God even in the midst of fear and questions. Because whatever your endgame might be, richness awaits. Margot promises, “You got this, girl!” “Gives you concrete steps for dating well, from the beginning to the end, all while reminding you just how loved you already are.” —Chrystal Evans Hurst, bestselling author and speaker “With humor, wisdom, and practical answers, Margot’s heart and voice shine through this book, and I can’t wait to send it to my single friends!” —Bianca Juarez Olthoff, pastor, speaker, and author of the bestselling How to Have Your Life Not Suck
Endorsements (15)
“PRAISE FOR THE GROWN WOMAN’S GUIDE TO ONLINE DATING “Because I know so many people, I’ve never seriously considered online dating. But after checking out Margot’s book, it might just be in the cards! Not only does she take the guesswork out of it all, but her wit and transparency make the concept so much more inviting. Ladies, I have no doubt you will find it very insightful!”
“In this social media-saturated world, pursuing a relational connection through a screen can seem silly, superficial, and, to some, unspiritual. In this guide to online dating, Margot puts to rest the taboos that have deterred many women from taking a chance at love. Whether you are new to online dating or have lost hope after years of underwhelming results, Margot navigates this voyage with you and helps you avoid the characteristic setbacks and pitfalls of virtual connection. This guide will give you concrete steps for dating well from the beginning to the end, all while reminding you just how loved you already are.”
“With humor, wisdom, and practical answers, Margot speaks not just theoretically, but realistically. There are a ton of dating books in the world, but she narrows the playing field and speaks to problems within dating for grown women. Her heart and voice shine through this book, and I can’t wait to send it to my single friends!”
“Margot Starbuck is smart and empowering in her new book The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating. In a dating landscape that often feels like an endless maze, Margot provides a map for her readers, complete with hard-earned wisdom, fresh insights, and personal anecdotes. She is the girlfriend sitting next to you, the counselor encouraging you, the friend commiserating with you, and, at times, an outlet for the Spirit to guide you. Fire up your phones, prepare your profiles, and realize how lucky you are to have Margot walking through this with you.”
“The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating is insightful, witty, inspiring, and so very engaging. It’s for any woman who wants to successfully navigate the world of online dating by first discovering the unique value she offers to the world.”
“The very day I received Margot Starbuck’s new book I tore into it eagerly, reading until midnight. Which is strange since I’m not in the dating market. But I am in the ‘good reading’ and ‘wise and witty’ market, which is another way of saying ‘I’m in the Margot Starbuck market.’ Pass this book on to anyone who’s dating or thinking of it. They’ll laugh, take notes, avoid tons of awkward dates, and gain buckets of godly savvy. I can’t think of a better guide than Starbuck.”
“As a woman who was divorced and then chose to try online dating, I wish I had had Margot’s witty, gentle, honest, soul-helpful advice to guide me on my journey. I would have saved myself some heartache and a lot of time, and would have started the process with the truth: that I am already Beloved as I am. Every dating woman should read this book.”
“Margot Starbuck offers the book equivalent of a long chat over hot cups of coffee, equal parts counsel and commiseration.”
“This book is so much more than a how-to for online dating! Margot Starbuck serves as your BFF and the most awesome mentor you could ever hope to have. Brimming with rich relational and spiritual insights, The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating teaches readers to live and love well. It is an indispensable resource for women as they navigate dating in the twenty-first century.”
“This is a book that meets a screaming need. Finally, finally, an insightful, realistic guide to the mysterious world of relationship possibilities that come from dating someone you met online. Margot Starbuck is a voice of wisdom you can trust as you take steps of faith and courage in a new relational venture. I am thrilled to recommend this book!”
“Margot Starbuck is straight-up hilarious but she’s also honest, vulnerable, and deeply insightful. Having been through the world of online dating myself, I wish I’d had a book like this to guide me because it offers practical help combined with sage wisdom. If you are considering getting into this new dating world, are already in it, or just want a great read—buy this book! You won’t regret it.”
“Let’s face it, online dating is tough. Honest, practical, encouraging, and kind, Margot Starbuck is here to walk us through it. Her book will be a guide and a comfort to many women navigating the online dating landscape, pointing out the perils and pitfalls and urging us to stay the course.”
“The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating has me just about ready to open my dating apps again to give my profile a refresh. Fun, relatable, and practical, Starbuck walks readers through the all-too-daunting process of putting themselves out there. This book is a must-read for anyone tiptoeing into the world of online dating—especially those who thought they were done with dating for good. Though focused on us single gals, this book is also helpful for the already partnered who want to understand the experiences of their single friends. When it comes to the dating court, Starbuck is the cheerleader we all need.”
“The dating landscape looks nothing like it did twenty years ago, and for women who grew up hoping a boy would phone on the landline with the long curly telephone cord, this ‘swipe right’ world can be bewildering. The Grown Woman’s Guide to Online Dating is anchored in grace and socially savvy in its coaching and cheerleading. Margot Starbuck is the book bestie you’ll want to introduce all your girl friends to. She shares everything from top tips for creating a profile to guides to broaching difficult conversations with her characteristic honesty, hilarity, and wisdom. It is possible to remain sane, secure in your identity as God’s beloved, and also try online dating: you can trust Margot as a friend and guide.”
“There is so much to love about this book. It’s hilarious, it’s practical, it’s hopeful, it’s wise. But here is what I love most: there are many ‘grown women’ in our churches who are single and looking for companionship (not just the romantic kind!) and guidance, and Margot lovingly offers herself as both. Her words will no doubt help an oft-overlooked group to feel seen, understood, and dignified, and that’s an example we would all do well to follow, no matter our relationship status. I can’t wait to share this book with some of the women in my life!”
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