The HEAR Process
Healing Relationships through Loving Communication
- Marriage, Family & Relationships
- Publisher: Elm Hill (HarperCollins Christian Publishing)
- Published: 2020
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Publisher's Description
Studies show that how we deal with our hurts will make or break the relationship connection. The HEAR Process provides a predictably productive, positive, effective, and truly healing way to deal with hurts and conflict. By consistently applying this process to our communication, we will be set free from the hurts that inevitably occur in any long-term relationship. This healing leads to forgiveness and the removal of anger and bitterness. This results in experiencing emotional freedom that relieves the hopeless, helpless feeling that often leaves us feeling desperate. The HEAR Process contains the solution for becoming masterful at dealing with conflict. In resolving conflict, there is a lot of information published about what not to do in our communication. The HEAR Process is an intentional communication tool that sets you up for success to heal broken relationships. This tool shows you exactly what to do to break out of all the bad habits that destroy good communication. Unresolved hurts cause anger, avoidance, and defensiveness that block the joy in our relationships. Even if there have been unresolved issues for years, this process breaks through the walls of pain, bringing understanding, healing, and safety to relationships. This process allows the conflict to be used to grow our ability to know one another deeper. As we grow in knowing one another, we can love one another better. The HEAR Process is a structured, brief therapy approach to be used in a clinical setting or at home without a therapist present. This transformative technique will solidify your confidence in handling the most difficult issues in personal relationships or in your relationship counseling. The HEAR Process has a proven record over the decades of being effective when used in relationships including marriages, friendships, siblings, parent/child, teacher/student, and co-workers.
Endorsements (3)
“The HEAR Process is an EXCELLENT resource that identifies the bases for breakdowns in relationships: unmet needs in the individuals, and provides a pattern for communicating in relationships in response to the needs that have been identified. The HEAR Process is a MUST-HAVE for the professional counselor, social worker, pastor or others working with individuals in pre-marital, marital or family counseling. An invaluable tool!”
“The HEAR Process presents a way of communicating that WORKS and does it in such a way that the reader will be hard pressed to walk away with questions of 'how' or 'why'. The form of communicating is so natural that it makes teaching it to others a snap. The rewards one receives from following the HEAR process far outweigh results from other communication tools I've used. One quickly feels for the party expressing their pain. Empathy is a natural outcome. It's truly magical! The HEAR process is so well written and easy to follow ANYONE can pick up this book and benefit from it; however, The HEAR Process is a MUST HAVE for all in the helping profession. It will revolutionize not only your practice but your HEART!”
“Deborah's book masterfully addresses the need for empathy, and not defensiveness or aggression, in communicating the deep issues of relationship. At one of the most delicate points of resolving problems, where couples can so easily take a hurtful path, this book helps them to navigate successfully. In addition to this, the book offers many other very practical helps for people who are wanting clear information.”
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