The Sacred Search
- Marriage, Family & Relationships
- Publisher: David C. Cook
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Publisher's Description
In the revised edition of his hit book The Sacred Search, author Gary Thomas helps single people of all ages make wise marital choices, in large part by rethinking what basis those choices should be made on. Readers are encouraged to think beyond finding their “soul mate,” an idea that has its roots in the philosophy of Plato, and instead adopt a more biblical search for a “sole mate”— someone who will walk with them on their spiritual journey. Thomas asks, What if we focused on why to get married more than on who to marry? What if being “in love” isn’t a good enough reason to get married? And most of all, what if God designed marriage to make us holy more than to make us happy? About the Author Gary Thomas is writer-in-residence at Second Baptist Church in Houston, a frequent guest on Focus on the Family and FamilyLife Today radio, and a popular speaker around the world. His award-winning books have been translated into a dozen languages and sold hundreds of thousands of copies. Thomas and his wife have three children. Discover more from Gary Thomas Notes about eBook licensing: This David C Cook digital product is protected by copyright laws and is intended for non-commercial use only. Your use is subject to the End User License Agreement (“EULA”) and any additional terms or restrictions that may accompany the product. Digital products cannot be returned, sold, or relicensed. See the EULA for additional terms related to replacement files.
Endorsements (12)
“It’s what drives so many industries and even more individuals: it’s the pursuit of the perfect spouse. But what if there’s more—much more—to dating than finding ‘the one’? In The Sacred Search, my friend Gary Thomas looks at the heart of a subject that many consider him an expert on—successful marriage. And with a biblical and bold approach, he shows readers that marriage isn’t just about who we walk down the aisle with but also about the very reasons behind that walk. Anyone who is dating, engaged, or hopes to be one day needs to read this book!”
“Gary Thomas has logged a lot of miles working with young men and women as they navigate the often difficult path to marriage in the twenty-first century. The Sacred Search will help those who desire marriage to pursue it in a manner that deepens their faith, honors God, and blesses their future spouses.”
“Gary Thomas debunks the mythical search for a soul mate to help you choose a ‘sole mate’—someone who will ‘lay down their life’ in faithful love. This biblically based book is for anyone who wants to be wise in pursuit of a spouse.”
“Filled with questions to make you think and teaching that will bring ‘aha’ moments, this book is a must-read for everyone considering marriage. I highly recommend it to you—I wish I’d had it when I was single!”
“The Sacred Search is a powerfully honest portrayal of the biblical view of marriage. Gary Thomas dismantles contemporary philosophies on love, sexuality, and marital union by offering strong arguments for why they have not been successful. His comprehensive look at romantic relationships through psychological, emotional, physical, and spiritual perspectives gives the reader a framework for understanding the why of marriage in a world that is grossly fixated on the who. His appeal to a kingdom-first perspective gives both hope and healing for a generation in desperate need of a fresh and Christ-centered understanding of God’s plan for marriage. This book is a must-read before anyone says ‘I do.”
Dr. Michelle Anthony
“Our culture is obsessed with compatibility and chemistry. However, in relationship formation, character always trumps chemistry. Great marriages do not flow from compatibility; they flow from character. I appreciate Gary Thomas taking such a bold stand on marriage. The Sacred Search is a gut check for anyone considering, delaying, or even pursuing marriage. If marriage scares you, read this book and be encouraged. If you feel you are not ready for marriage, then please read and be prepared. If the critics tell you it ain’t worth it, I beg you to read this book and learn how to honor marriage.”
“One of the primary hopes I have for my generation is that we will desire partnerships with purpose. In this book, Gary creates a compelling argument that shifts the believer’s view of relationships, dating, and marriage to focus on something greater. His biblical, logical, and fatherly wise advice is the reason I will point my generation to his book for many of the commonly asked ‘What about …’ questions. And I will point the older generation to him as a guide to mentoring my peers. I’m thankful Gary has created this resource. Guess I can quit my job now!”
“Something is broken. Marriages are falling apart all around us, and I believe Gary Thomas has just gone straight to the root. We build our entire lives on this earth around this one decision (who to marry): where we live, how we live. Even future humans hang in the balance. Gary just built a map to help you see through the emotion and infatuation to God’s heart for dating and marriage.”
“In The Sacred Search, Gary Thomas clearly, relevantly, and scripturally debunks common myths that stunt singles. He helps us see the fallacy of searching for our ‘soul mate’ and waiting around for ‘the one.’ This book will help singles make wiser choices about who we marry because it explores why we marry.”
“Why should I get married?’ could be the most important question millennials are asking. Gary Thomas helps this generation navigate the ‘why’ in a Christ-honoring way. A long-awaited tool for how singles can navigate the difficult waters of dating and how to make finding a mate a holy pursuit.”
“Gary Thomas debunks the mythical search for a soul mate to help you choose a ‘sole mate’—someone who will ‘lay down their life’ in faithful love. This biblically based book is for anyone who wants to be wise in pursuit of a spouse.”
“What people are saying about … THE SACRED SEARCH “Singles, pay attention. Gary knows marriage and is eager to help those of us desiring marriage get there with confidence and grace.”
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