What to Do When He Says, I Don’t Love You Anymore
An Action Plan to Regain Confidence, Power and Control
- Marriage, Family & Relationships
- Publisher: W Publishing Group (Thomas Nelson)
- Published: 2002
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Publisher's Description
Discarding popular Christian advice to use romance and sweetness to draw a wandering spouse back into a marriage, Dr. David Clarke lays out a tough-love action plan for abused and betrayed spouses to rebuild their marriages through proven steps that will restore self-confidence one step at a time. "I don't love you anymore." These simple words have the power to send the listener into shock, denial, and desperation. The obvious response is to ask oneself, "What can I do to win my partner back?" In this classic book, Christian psychologist Dr. David Clarke provides just the battle plan needed. Contrary to what many relationship "experts" recommend—weak, passive plans that involve begging or romancing a spouse back—Clarke offers an approach that he calls guerilla love, which essentially turns the tables on the wandering spouse. Drawing healthy boundaries and restoring your self-esteem Five things your spouse really means when saying, "I don't love you anymore" The most popular "exit lies" and how to see through them Classic symptoms of a person who is having an affair Learning when it’s time to walk away This book will remind you that you are worthy of love, that you are not a doormat, and that you are a prize. Dr. Clarke will empower and equip you to make the best and most God-honoring attempt at saving your marriage.
Endorsements (5)
“ENDORSEMENTS FOR I Don’t Love You Anymore This book is going to send shudders down the spine of the Christian therapeutic community. It will make them think. It will probably make them mad. But in the process it will force everyone to reconsider how he or she advises couples processing the pain of adultery. For any woman who’s been through the pain of betrayal, or any man who’s put her through it, this book is a “must read” primer for restoring love, intimacy, and trust.”
Dr. Tim Kimmel
“love, biblical approach in dealing with the devastation of an affair. David Clarke’s method may appear to be too harsh, but it’s based on the truth of God’s Word. That’s why it simply works! Every married couple and single adult contemplating marriage should read this book to help affair-proof their marriage. It is an absolute must for Married couples who have faced an affair.”
“In a culture that throws away relationships like paper cups, David Clarke clearly shows not only how to fight for your marriage—but how to do so biblically. Clarke makes it clear that when a spouse says those dreaded words, “I don’t love you anymore,” the most loving response is to lovingly but firmly rub your mate’s nose in the truth— the truth of covenant in marriage and the consequences of breaking covenant. Clarke does a masterful job of outlining, chapter by chapter, the game plan for dealing with a spouse who has lost that lovin’ feeling.”
“isn’t that simple, and Dr. Clarke tells it like it is.”
“Direct, blunt, extremely tough, revolutionary, and biblical!” That describes David Clarke’s latest work that could potentially reduce the workload of divorce attorneys! If you think your partner doesn’t love you anymore, don’t give up until you read this book!”
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